I feel like I have started the last few posts like this but here we go again. I am sorry this has taken so long, life is still crazy but I feel like that’s just how it is going to be from now on. That said let’s get down to business. I am exhausted…. mentally, emotionally and physically. It has been 8 months since my mother in law passed away. I have been handling the majority of the estate dealing and it has been extremely draining.
I feel like anything that could go wrong did. The sump pump failed on the day of one of the open houses, the furnace shot fireballs and quit working during the home inspection and the sump pump system failed inspection at the last minute before closing. The items in the house that we were told could stay needed to be removed at the last minute because the buyer changed his mind….. frustrating to say the least, and expensive. That said the house is now sold and the estate will be closed by the end of the year. PRAISE GOD.
Throughout this entire process I have gone through a gauntlet of unpleasant emotions and thoughts, it got to the point that anytime I needed to go to the house I would leave angry….. every single time. That would leave me feeling guilty. Who gets mad at a deceased person and her house? This girl. Ugg
Throughout this time we had basically stopped being regulars at church, we were frustrated with things there and basically didn’t have the emotional strength to address it so we just stopped showing up. We have since returned and it seems like the things that frustrated us the most prior were no longer a big deal. I try think that the devil saw a crack in my armor and was trying to weasel his way back into my life. Thankfully between my husband and I our armor was weak in different places and when we joined forces it was stronger than him. The devil basically had me on my knees but jokes on him because that’s the best way to pray.
I am human, imperfect, I struggle and I fail God every day but I thank, well Him every day for not leaving my side. When the sump pump failed, it was something we could fix, when the furnace broke we were able to get a deal on a new one and someone stepped up to loan us the money. When the sewer inspection failed, we were able to get someone there that day and there was just enough in the account to cover it. These are not coincidences, those are what my grandmother would call Godicidences.
I have been in much lower places in my life but have not faced anything this hard since I renewed my relationship with Christ and his Son. This time I did not try to drown my sorrows in Jack Daniels, I did not throw it the towel as much as I wanted to, and I didn’t push my husband away, if anything this has brought us closer. I am a work in process and thank God he isn’t done with me yet.
If you are in a low spot in your life, learn from my mistakes. Keep going to church, keep your eyes on God and just keep moving forward.